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Joining me in the studio this week is my dear friend, author and angel expert Radleigh Valentine.

Radleigh offers a practical perspective on angels and spirit guides in this insightful Big Talk. Brace yourself for moments of awe and deep insight as we delve into the spirit world and unravel our most pressing questions about divine connection. Learn effective ways to receive guidance, forge connections and draw comfort from your spiritual allies to navigate life’s obstacles and find profound peace and purpose.

In this episode you’ll learn:

  • How to ask your angels for signs
  • The meaning of an “archangel prescription” and how to curate your own archangels
  • How to deepen your relationship with your angels, archangels and spirit guides
  • How to know if an angel or lost loved one is trying to contact you
  • And as an added bonus, Radleigh and Gabby pull a card for the listeners

Radleigh Valentine is a bestselling author with an amazing way of making complicated topics easy to understand. He delivers angel messages and training with compassion, integrity, and a refreshing sense of humor. Radleigh loves to show people how they can make powerful changes in their lives, and has created a full range of insightful, informative, and entertaining spiritual tools, including tarot and oracle card decks, books, and numerous certification courses.

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angels, guides and your divine connection to the spiritual realm

[00:00:00] The following podcast is a Dear Media production. Hi there, Gabby here. This podcast is intended to educate, inspire, and support you on your personal journey towards inner peace. I am not a psychologist or a medical doctor and do not offer any professional health or medical advice. If you are suffering from a psychological or medical condition, please seek help from a qualified health professional.

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Welcome back to the show, my friends. Welcome back to Dear Gabby. [00:03:00] It is another show today. Where we talk about angels. This is, uh, one of the most popular topics on this show. We love to get deep into the metaphysical. I love to talk about spirit guides, angels, bring on all my medium expert friends. Just claim, fully claim my own mediumship and talk about what it means to start to live with a sense of faith and knowing that there is a presence beyond our physical sight.

That there's a presence within us and around us that's guiding us and supporting us all the time. And today on the show, we have back my gorgeous, gorgeous friend, Radley Valentine. Radley is one of my favorite, favorite, favorite people. He's just such a ray of sunshine. He's an angel expert. If you haven't heard him on the show, listen to today's episode, go back to our past episode with him.

He is just so amazing. It's so epic. And we talk about boundaries and we talk about creating energetic boundaries and how we can use our angels [00:04:00] to help us with our relationships and with just staying committed and consistent with what it is that we want to put out into the world and what it is that we want to receive.

It's a big show, guys. It's a really big show. And if you love this episode and you're super into it and you're like, I want to connect to my guides and my angels more, then definitely go get that free guided meditation that I have. It is a spirit guides meditation, go to DearGabby.com/spirit guides, and you can start to channel your own angels and guides today, starting now, DearGabby.com/spirit guides.

And let's just dive into the show because It is going to rock your world. You're not going to want to miss this one. This is the kind of show that you're going to want to listen to over and over again because it gives you that hope and that sense of knowing that we're not alone, that we're not alone on this path that we have chosen.

Enjoy the show, my friends. Back with my love, Radley Valentine. [00:05:00] You are a fan favorite here on Dear Gabby. Aw, thank you. Our episode was so heart opening and you can go back, guys. It was all about connecting to your angels. And we're here now again connecting to our angels with radley valentine Should we start the show by pulling a card?

We can I think that's the move. Okay, that's fine So this is actually my new deck that's coming out in march. Is there an owl and a butterfly hold the wait what? radley What? My two signs. Oh my god are on the cover the blue butterfly and the owl That's an owl. You can't make this stuff up. That is not, not funny.

I mean, not normal. Not, it's funny. It's, it's crazy. I don't understand what's going on here. That is my sign for my son, the blue butterfly, for my son, for my son, Owen, who is no longer here, but he's, he was my baby in my belly. And then the owl has been my sign forever. Anyone that's [00:06:00] read. The universe has your back know that the owl is my sign and you just can't make it up because it's like Front and center in your face blue butterfly and owl like drop Should I pull card?

Yeah, go ahead. Wait, this is nuts. Oh, and then there's like a little deer with a crown Oh my god, I cannot handle this whole situation With this. I just I just don't I just can't I just I don't understand what's going on here the owl and the blue butterfly together Um They're staring at me. Unbelievable, my love.

Unbelievable. Okay, so let's see what card I get. Here we go, guys. Strength. Strength, of course. True strength is displayed through kindness, forgiveness, and compassion. You have tremendous personal power and courage. Yes, I do. I really do. And it's number 11. Strength. Perfect. Talk to me about it. So strength, strength is a great card.

I love it because it was the very first Tarot card I ever pulled in my entire life. Was the strength card. No way. [00:07:00] Sincerely. It was. Very first one. And strength has this beautiful energy. This deck is called Animal Guides Tarot, and so there's animals on it. And so there's a lion and a lamb. Because strength is about strength through kindness.

It's where we find compassion for somebody else. It isn't where we force our will necessarily over somebody else, but it's where we do so with kindness and softness and gentleness and compassion. Like boundaries. Like boundaries. But it is boundaries, and that's why you say that. We're going to get to that in a second.

But the thing about the Strength card too, is that it always reminds us that we are stronger than we realize. When we're in a place where we're feeling weak, we're in a place where we're feeling disempowered, strength shows up to say, No, no. No, no, no, you are strong, you can do this. Yeah, I'm in strength right now.

I know I am strong. I'm strong too. I honestly, honestly. Maybe this is for you too, baby. I know it is. But I mean, it's like, I think I'm stronger than I have ever been. Yeah. I really sincerely do. Yeah. And I was going to tell [00:08:00] you this story. It's a little embarrassing, but I'm gonna tell you anyway. So we did our first talk in November and it was fantastic and I loved it.

And everybody raved about it. Everybody was so great. But I was swamped. I was literally so swamped. People wanted to get readings and stuff. Well, it wasn't that. It was that I didn't have time to listen to it myself. Ah. I didn't get around to it. I just couldn't find the time. And so literally just two weeks ago, which was leading up to me making a very big decision in my life, I was like, Oh, well, I'm going to go for a walk and I'm going to listen to the thing.

And literally, boom, baba, boom. First words out of my mouth were a message back to me. Yep. It was literally me talking through time and saying, You are strong, you can do this. Wow. Wow. I mean, look, I had angel bumps. And then look at the card that we just pulled. I know, and I've got angel bumps. It's just reinforcing.

I'm like, it's, it was, it was this wow moment where I was on this walk in my neighborhood and going, I, my mind is blown. I had to rewind it and listen to it [00:09:00] again and go, that is unbelievable. And so that to me is the magic of the angels. That to me is the magic of the universe. It's that the universe, literally, that message would have been lost on me.

You know, like a month ago. I needed it right that minute. You receive it when you need it. You receive it when you need it. And it was, it was just this great moment. And even in the moment I was like, I gotta tell Gabby this. Because this is so incredible. That this happened this particular way. Yeah, that is a common thing for me.

Sometimes I'll find myself listening to a podcast. Or I'll be listening to one of my talks. Or I'll see a clip of something. And I'll tell myself what I need to hear. And it's just reflected right back to me. It's absolutely freaking beautiful. I mean, my word for 2024 is boundaries. Me too. No way. I mean, it's not my, my word is becoming.

Okay, but but I am but boundaries is a theme boundaries is my word. Yeah, and it's like something about 2023 It's like I didn't like [00:10:00] 2023 very much. I don't like saying it. I don't know. It's not a good year But the thing about it for me was that I felt like I came out of it steeled by fire But here we are and i'm loving 2023 all of a sudden Yeah, because I came out of it on the other side and i'm like going I I have got such boundaries.

Everybody that's around me is like going, who is this dude? What is up with you? Because I'm literally like going, no, that doesn't work for me. Wait, there's a theme going on here. I'm looking at Josh. There's a theme going on here, baby, because I had an inner shake down in December, too. And last year was not easy.

And now I'm in the same place where I'm just like, no, literally what you just said, like, no, no, thank you. Not doing that anymore. Absolutely. It's a boundary. The people pleaser in me of, you know, All these years that I've been on planet earth is like taking a backseat for the first time. And I'm people pleasing me.

Yes. My love. I am people pleasing me. I am going to echo that to you right [00:11:00] now. I am people pleasing me. I can think of all the listeners out here right now that are like, In their car making dinner making breakfast wherever they're listening and they're saying people pleasing. Thank you. That's excellent yeah, and it's so weird because it's like My whole life i've been like, oh whatever you need whatever kevin needs whatever josh needs whatever anybody needs It's like let's just give them that and now i'm just like I, I, I'm not even thinking about it, you know, it's like, no matter who it is, I'm just literally like going, no, it's not gonna work, I'm sorry, that doesn't fit into my boundary thing, and, you know, I think some people are aghast and, and the people who really love me are loving it.

I mean, they're loving it. I get, I'm getting a lot of love from people who are going, took you long enough. They're so happy for you. Yes. Yeah, so am I. Yeah. So am I. Yeah. I feel like we've been friends for so many years, but we're just new friends, really. We know each other for a long time. Well, yes, we have.

But you're my brother now. [00:12:00] And, no, because I'm seeing like, This, I'm seeing this almost like plexiglass shield, like rainbow energy, like pushing off of it. And it's just this gentle shield and everything can just ricochet off of it gently. Very much like what you said about the strength. You can be boundaried and you can be super clear and you can say no way more than yes, but you can be loving at the same time and compassionate at the same time.

And that's such a strong message for where you're at right now too. It's like, you can be like, hell no with love, right? Hell no with love. Yeah. Yeah. Absolutely. Like, love you. And also, no is the most loving response. Yeah. Most often. It is. Most often. Yeah. I, I think that, that can definitely be true. It's hard for someone who has codependent stuff to believe that.

Right. It's, cause that, that, a lot of our listeners have that codependency. Yeah. I've lived with it in my own ways. Me too. Just living in the ways where you're like, I've got to override myself to feel complete. Right. Yeah. Yep. There, there are people in my life that I've been doing for, for so long. Long.

Yeah. Yeah. That I don't know how to [00:13:00] not do for them. Yeah. Even if because and the only thing that's keeping me from it is it's so self sacrificial. Yes. It's like there's people that you do for that it that it's like it isn't self sacrificial. It's, it's it's, It's loving of yourself to love these people, because what you get back is an equal measure.

And it's just so wonderful and delicious and beautiful and worth it. And then there's the people that all you do is you're given, you're given, you're given, you're given, you're given, you never get anything back. And it becomes this self crucifixion. It is. And it's also not helping them. No, it isn't.

Because you're enabling them. 100%. Yes. That's a big topic because I think a lot of people are like, Oh, I'm not complete if unless I'm saving everybody or have, you know, people in their life that they're just constantly fixing or trying to do. And it is such a form of enabling that I actually was with a friend recently and I was just like, we used to have such a kind of codependent relationship and then years went by and now we don't anymore.

And well, I'm boundaried [00:14:00] now. I was almost sad for the part of me that used to try to fix everything with this friend, you know? And I was like, I was like, Oh yeah, no, no, no. I'm just. I'm just. So not here for that. I can listen, I can hold space, but I'm just like, not trying to fix it anymore.


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It's just amazing to me because I honestly, every morning I get up and I don't know how I'm doing it. Because the, the, the, when the switch flipped, it just flipped. Well, the same thing happened for me. So I'm wondering if you can psychically tune into this a bit or just like feel into it. I have a sensation.

I just gave a talk yesterday in L. A. all about how we are in this stage of becoming. How we went through, like, trauma with COVID and then really, like, surviving and then processing and now it's becoming. Oh, yeah. And it, that was, I noticed it for a lot of people, it was like this shakedown in December, flip the switch, now we're stepping into this boundary way, we're really claiming what we want, we're claiming who we want to be, we're claiming how we want to feel, and it was a flip of the [00:20:00] switch for me as well.

Like, it was like, I woke up and I was like, Done and that that's like a quantum shift when you think I think it's a big quantum shift And I think that it's amazing that a lot of people in the world are feeling it at the same time Yeah, what's that about? Well astrologically Pluto did just go into Aquarius That's a big deal and it's we're gonna be stuck with that too for until 20 44 or something.

Whoa, okay. So lots of changing. Yeah, it's going to go back into Capricorn for a minute and then it's going to be in Aquarius. And so Aquarius is a freedom loving experience. It is. And so I think that there's some of that, but it's, it's, I think that whole energy that we're experiencing, Pluto's a big deal.

I remember when I was in my, uh, what was I, I was in my 30s and I'm quintuple Sagittarius, which means that there's all these planets in a glom. And so back in like 90, Eight, I think it was Pluto [00:21:00] marched across my Mercury, my Venus, my Mars, my sun, my rising. It just went boom, boom, boom, boom. And Pluto just turns things up upside down.

And so literally in that time, my 14 year marriage ended my, I moved from across the country. I got a new job and then I switched to a spiritual career. Literally every aspect of my life just got totally like upheavaled. Yes, and so, you know, those are the breakthrough moments. Those are the best moments.

They suck when you're experiencing them. Oh my God, they're so hard. What comes out the other side is miraculous. How do you rely on your angels in these times? of upheaval. Oh my gosh. I mean, like everyone, it's like, again, now I've got angel bumps again. It is everything. I have every television in my entire house turned to a YouTube station that plays angel music with graphics of angels.

[00:22:00] Literally everything. It's like I'm surrounding my house with angel energy. Yeah. I have four archangels that I'm working with personally. I call this an archangel prescription. And so for PEEP, I always like to work with Michael because Michael is safety and protection. We really can't get anywhere if we don't feel safe.

And so Michael is safety and protection, but also using a sort of like to sever our energetic connections to the past because the past can hold us back too. It's, it's no more looking backwards, no more driving with a rear view mirror. It is moving forward. That's right. And, you know, and then people who really care about abundance and prosperity, they might bring in Ariel for people who are public speakers, Gabriel, right?

Exactly. Uriel brings life transformation. So it's, it's this thing of like creating this little mixture for yourself where you're like, okay, this is how these are the angels I want, but never, ever forget. Cause you know what a big thing I am for guardian angels. Never forget your guardian angels. Who, [00:23:00] so folks out there right now.

They can kind of curate their own angel prescription. Yes, archangel prescription is actually something that I came up with. And so imagine yourself in a square room like this. And so, and each of the four corners are four archangels. All right. And you are the princess in the middle. Okay. And so you're standing there and you're getting this support.

And so I always love to think about Archangel Michael to the back left of me. Michael is just, because again, safety, protection, life purpose, cutting away things that no longer serve you, people in your life, whatever, that's what Michael's great for. And we kind of always need that. Michael, just like the universe always has your back, think of Michael always has your back.

That's why I like him in the back left. And then I put three other archangels around people on based on what particular issue that they are concerned about. So let's make one up. Or did you have one you want? So let's make one up. So let's say that [00:24:00] somebody is really interested in 2024 about their abundance and prosperity.

2024 is an eight year, two plus zero plus two plus four equals eight, eight. And angel numbers is abundance and prosperity. We want to take advantage of that, don't we? Yeah, of course we do. So who else are we going to want? Well, I think one of the things that we're going to want is we're going to want Archangel Ariel.

Ariel is the Archangel of nature. But from nature comes material things. And so Ariel is this archangel that brings us abundance and prosperity. She has a feminine energy. Archangels are neither masculine nor feminine. It doesn't really matter, but they have an energy. So Michael, safety, protection, sword.

That feels masculine to human beings for the most part. Ariel. Flitting through the forest with the animals and stuff, but she has this energy. So we put her in the left front because we want someone that's going to bring us prosperity and abundance leading the way. Leading the way. So to the back, right, [00:25:00] I'm going to say Uriel.

So Uriel comes in a golden color in Archangels. Uriel brings us brilliant epiphanies, amazing ideas that lead to emotional healing, that leads directly to life transformation. A lot of people that are having abundance and prosperity feel like they need a transformation. They want the next thing. And so Uriel.

Also, though, because he is the light or fire of God. You can think of Uriel as being like, you know those spotlights that go across the sky? Think of him like that. He's not a bat signal. He's an angel signal. And so he's going across the sky, helping to bring in for us the attention of the world and the attention of abundance and prosperity that we are looking for.

And then finally, in the right front, I'm going to bring in Archangel Raguel. That's R A G U E L. Raguel is the archangel. His name means the friend of God. And so, [00:26:00] Raguel can bring in all these people that can help you. He brings in the people that can open doors for you, people who can introduce you to the right other people.

So, Raguel brings us this whole thing of bringing harmony to relationships that are in discord. And so, Raguel has this ab ability to, like, smooth things out between people so that things can get done, things can be successful. So with this Roguel, I need that guy. Roguel is a great dude, okay? He just smooths things out?

He smooths things out between people, he makes people have harmony between each other, but he also introduces us to all the right people who can open doors for us. Oh, Raguel, let's talk to that guy. Yes. So, if I wanted to work with Raguel right now. So, Raguel comes in a pale blue color. Oh, you're wearing kind of a pale blue right now, all over your shirt.

I do, I have some blue, yes. So, Raguel comes in pale blue. Raguel, because he's the friend of God, it feels like walking off an elevator and [00:27:00] bumping into Gabby Bernstein and getting a great big hug. That's what happened today. That's what happened today. So, it's like, It's like, it's like you're getting a hug by somebody who knows you and loves you.

That's how I felt when you got off the elevator. I was like, Oh, hi. I felt angels with you off that elevator. I'm dragging them everywhere I go. They're with you, man. Yeah. So it's like having a hug. Okay. So he feels like you're getting a hug from someone you love. Yes, he does. So you know his presence is there when you feel that feeling?

Yes, you can. Absolutely. Absolutely. But you'll, if you ask. So, first of all, the angels want you to ask for help, okay? It's just a thing, it's a rule. I wish, but it is a rule. No, it's a good rule because you set the intention. Well, right, and you set the intention and it's also freedom of will, free will. You know, it's like, we're not going to monkey with your life unless you ask us to and then we're so happy to help.

But at Raggy Well, you invite him in, and it feels like a hug. You'll, you may know if you close your eyes, you'll see like, you might see light blue, different people, some people are [00:28:00] clairvoyant, some people are clairaudient, I just mentioned. But you have this sense of, I'm being held in someone's arms. Ooh, I feel that a lot.

Yeah, I feel that. And then you'll start to, when you work with him, you'll start to notice. It's like, okay, I had that conversation. I was so dreading that conversation and it went really well. Why, I'm so shocked. Why did it go well? Or you might have a situation where it's like, I cannot find the right person to help me with blank.

And then suddenly someone says, have you heard of blank? And it's like, yes, I've I think Raguel has been up in my s t lately.

Quite possibly. I'm telling you because everything that I need is just unfolding. Or not even what I need. What is of the highest good for the service of me in this world at this time. Also for my joy, my fun, my grace, my ease. Just sort of Unfolding so naturally, I imagine that we, so we can call on Raguel when we [00:29:00] want guidance to be, to be led to the right circumstances, people, situations that are going to fulfill our joy and purpose.

Done. Raguel, bring it in. Yes. You're my guy. You're my guy. Scoot over, Gabriel. Gabriel's kind of like, I'm always there, you know, we're always, I'm just working through you all the time.

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Now, when we call the angel presence in, yes, so we've told rug you all in here. I've. How do you know that that presence is in the room? So for me, I get these signs physically, right? My hands here, my left hand's numb, my right hand's like up. What about you? How do you feel that presence physically, emotionally, spiritually?

Do you see it? Are you clairvoyant? I'm claircognizant, so I just know. I just, I just, I'm just totally just no, and I've always thought that, well, I no longer do, but for a long time, I thought claircognizance was like pulling the short straw because it's so easy to convince yourself you're making it up in your head, whereas with clairvoyance, it's sort of like, well, I'm sort of seeing, or I'm sort of audience, I'm sort of hearing, I'm sort of sentient, I have a distinct feeling, claircognizance, it's in my head, [00:34:00] but once you master claircognizance, you just, You don't, you just know, you just know that it's like, okay, they're here.

And it's like, we also have Ariel and we also have Uriel and we also have Michael. So we've got these angels that are present for this, for people that want to transform their lives or people that want to become empowered. You also channel people too, right? I'm a good medium, I just don't do it very much.

You just don't do it, I just let it spark over your head. Now, like, is it possible, this is something I've always wondered. Is it possible, like, my son, this blue butterfly, he showed up right here. Is he like an angel guide now? Like, how does that presence show up in him? Yeah, so, guides and passed over loved ones are not the same thing.

Okay, so it's apples and oranges. So it doesn't mean that he isn't also with you and also present and also helping, but it's, it's a different kind of thing than an angel, right? But it could be a God as a [00:35:00] guide is like a deceased loved one. Yeah guide. Yeah, absolutely Okay, I think I that I consider them guides for sure It's like I know my mom is present when she's present and she's always watching out for me.

She's particularly present right now Uh huh. And and so I am aware of that. Yeah, and I'm a Very significant sign for me is a yellow butterfly And so they're everywhere for me right now because that represents somebody else that's passed over for me And so, okay. And so then when we see that guidance, what would we might want to do ask for some?

You can ask for support, but here's what I do when like if a yellow butterfly flutters in front of my face I stop I mean, it's like if I can at all I stop and go What was I just thinking about? What was I just worrying about? What is the message that Jace is with me in this particular moment? Because it, it, it's relevant to this moment.

And the last time it happened was just a couple of [00:36:00] days ago, and it was 100 percent relevant. I was going someplace I didn't want to go to, and I was scared of what, what was going to happen. And here's this yellow butterfly that flutters by. And I'm like, Jace is saying, it's okay. It's going to be all right.

And, and so I, when those things happen, I, I look at, okay, what is it? But right now I'm so into signs. I, I'm, I'm like. This is probably a terrible way to say this, but I'm a total sign whore right now. I mean, all I want are signs. I need constant validation that I am doing the right thing. Right, that's just because need for the validation for you right now is really simply just you're in a, you're in that place of Pluto, I guess, right?

Of just full blown upheaval. And so, Those moments when things aren't necessarily steady in our life are often the moments when we can really lean into that guidance even more. So it makes sense that like your own strength and inner knowing might be [00:37:00] more reliant right now on some visible signs and visible guides and even support from friends or having someone else channeling for you or just receiving back because You're in that kind of directional space the thing.

I don't know why i'm just getting so loud and something Did you look a lot like your mom? She like I do. I'm really close with her Yes, I was super close with my mom. Not my dad so much. Yeah, but very close with my mom She was she was kind of mom and dad. Yeah, my dad was kind of absentee. Yeah And so she kind of had to do both roles.

Yeah. She kind of, she always wanted a card on Father's Day because. Wow. Good for her. Strong. Yeah. I was like, I'm doing both jobs. I get both cards. So, okay. I think there's something sort of about like, you don't have to do what I did. Yeah. Like, like you're breaking the cycle. I know for a fact I'm breaking a cycle, but I'm also breaking my own cycle.

I mean, I have independent information from someone that does past [00:38:00] life work that I have been here before and now I am here again. Yeah. And I am here again because I did not do the work before. So that you're here again because you didn't do the work before, you're definitely doing it now. Yes. So you're going to be complete here.

Now, but the question is, so you're in this place now where you're wanting to ask for the, for signs and receive those messages. Yeah. Because there's, so, so I think a lot of people out there get into this place where they're really struggling or they want an answer, blah, blah, blah. And they're in a way where it's different than where you're at.

They're like controlling the universe and trying to be forceful with the science. You're using this in a way where you're like, I need to surrender and surrender more and surrender more and surrender more. And you're saying, show me where to go and what to do. You're not saying, give me an answer. Give me this.

Give me that. You're saying, guide me. Guide me. Very different energy. Absolutely. This is signposts. Signposts. This is turn left here. Great difference. And then I turn left and I'm like, was that the right turn? Right. You know. So you're just putting your hand out and saying, take me by the hand. Yes. And show me where to [00:39:00] go and show me what to do and show me what to say.

And that's actually my favorite prayer from A Course in Miracles. Where would you have me go? What would you have me do? What would you have me say? And to whom? That's a very different way of being led and guided by spirit than being like, tell me if this is right or wrong, right? Or, show me, no, because there's a different energy, right?

Like, I see this with a lot of my audience. It's like, I didn't get my sign. I didn't get my sign. Like, they're looking for that sign to be reaffirming that the thing that they want is right. Well, that's the problem, right? That's it right there. That's the problem. Because people are looking for the sign that's the sign that they want instead of the sign that they're actually getting.

That they need. That they get, right, exactly, you know, the actual guidance. They're looking for affirmation rather than they're looking for reinforcement rather than guidance and it's Courage is hard, and yet, if you let go, it can be kind of weirdly easy. You know, it's like I've been pulling cards on the daily for myself, for what I'm going through, and I recently pulled this card, and [00:40:00] it was like, I don't like this card, I don't want this card, this is not what I want right now.

And yet, like two days later, I'm like, no, but I got the message. And the message literally was, release your expectations for the outcome, and then you will be fine. And that's actually the full blown energy of actually putting your hand out and saying, show me where to go. Because you forget what you think you need.

And you pray for the highest good for all. Take a card, pick a card. I'm telling, they're telling me to do that. I'm totally tuned into some people here. People, mom, energy. And I'm not gonna, I'm not gonna hold back, baby. Don't. I'm not holding back, baby. It's all in the room, it's exploding and expanding. It's shuffling, shuffling.

Can you feel that shuffling, everybody? Putting his energy, that was a beautiful shuffle. So, Knight of Air. Okay. Okay, Knight of Air, this is the fastest moving energy in, in all of Tarot. Okay, [00:41:00] this is where things You picked that for yourself though, right? Yes. Okay, good. So, the card says, get ready for progress to speed up.

This situation requires that you choose logic and intellect over emotion and make your decisions quickly, right? Exactly right. Exactly right. So good for you right now. It's exactly right for me. So good for you right now. It's exactly right for me. It's like, I have to be, it's like, I'll deal with my emotions later.

But right now, and I have friends, I have people I can call, there are people who are supporting me. I can do my emotions when I need to, but right now, I have to be the person that is going to move myself through this energy as quickly and as safely as possible. I'll heal afterwards. Yes. But for now, I am wearing my angelic suit of armor.

Correct. Because if you get so into the emotion, it'll take over and detour you from where you need to be. It will. It'll stall it. It'll stall it and we can't stall it. Can't stall. Nice one. Can't stall. Nice one. So for whatever reason, so my son, Owen, [00:42:00] who's my blue butterfly, There's been a lot of detachment from this baby, so I carried him for five and a half months.

I, I worked really hard to get that embryo. He came to teach me the lesson of don't sweat the small stuff. And I, and he was alive. I had to let him go for my physical wellbeing and he wasn't going to make it. And I was for the first time, just today after I pulled this, after I opened this deck was like, Oh, maybe this is my time to connect to him.

It's been really dissociated from that experience. I had to have an abortion, right? So that was horrific. Right. And they ask you like, do you want to see the, do you want a footprint? And I'm like, no f ing way. Of course not. And some people do things like that. I understand. But for whatever reason, I'm feeling like he wants me to know something right now.

He's here and there's some presence that he's, and I haven't let that in or I haven't been ready for that to come into my life. It's been kind of a story, not a sensation, not an integrated experience because [00:43:00] it's still been somewhat dissociated. So I'm thinking I should pull a card for a message from him.

Okay. And see what comes through. So that's an actually really nice lesson for people listening. So when you sense that there's some presence with you, right? So if it's a deceased family member or an angel or whatever, take the moment, right? Well, right. Optimize that opportunity with you. That's Claire sentient, right?

Yeah. It's like I have a sensation that there's something. If something reminds you of mom. Or something reminds you of your grandmother or something reminds you of great aunt Esther. It's like, right? It's like, why now? Why this minute? Okay. If everything means something, and I believe it does, then it's like, there's a reason why something presented itself to remind you.

Queen of water, compassionate, loving, psychic. Oh, there he is. Okay. So this is what he's trying to remind me. This is a time of deep emotions and heightened intuition, and you can trust completely. Be mindful you don't ignore your own needs while caring for others. Quite a theme here. [00:44:00] Yes, quite a theme here.

Queen of Water is, is, she's deeply intuitive. She, in traditional tarot, she holds a box that no one really knows what's inside the box, but she does. Cool. And the, the Queen of Water, though, is very much into taking care of everybody else at the expense of herself. Okay. And, and so that is sort of a theme of we've been talking about that whole people pleasing and that whole thing.

And so the Queen of Water reminds us that we matter too. Yeah. That we can be compassionate and take care of other people, but we also have to take care of ourselves. Yeah. And I think that there's, there's, this is such a great, it's like spirit guides us through codependent change. Right now is kind of our theme of this show.

By the way, Rodney, I think I need you to come back like every week. Okay. You're just like There's just the energy the vibration the conversation is just so good. Thank you. Um, everyone loves you. I love you Your presence is so magnetic in my life. Yeah, this is the theme the reoccurring theme [00:45:00] It's really weird too that I'm holding my necklace, right?

I saw that. So this is a good story. So this is an O. And when I was trying to conceive my son Owen, I was in such limbo and I was trying to figure out what, how I was going to get the baby. I didn't have enough, my eggs weren't good. Like I was IVF after IVF. And our mutual friend Rebecca Rosen, you're friendly with Rebecca?

I, I am, I have met her before. You will be, we'll all get together. So Rebecca is another medium and she gave me a reading and she was like, Someone's going to give you a, like a necklace or something with an O on it. And it, it's actually a sign from your child that's coming. And a week later, my college roommate, Haverill, who's a jewelry designer, sends me out of the blue, this O necklace.

Of course, she's thinking for Oliver, right? I didn't even know that I was going to name my son Owen. I had no intention of naming my son. I thought I was having a girl, like I was just making all these stories up in my head. [00:46:00] So, the O necklace to me at the time just meant, the O necklace just meant, you know, the baby's on the way.

So, fast forward a year, I have my child, I choose to name him Owen, not thinking of any of it. When I had to let him go, I was wearing the necklace, and I was like, Holy sh this is for you. And so right here, right now, my hand goes to the necklace. And so I feel like he's just like, knock, knock, knock, knock. Mm hmm.

Knock, knock, knock. And you're ready. I mean, you're ready to be able to have this interaction with Owen. I think you're right. It's like real, it's. You're ready. It's, you've had some time and now it's, it's, you're like to the place. It's like, okay, now we can chat. Yeah. Yeah, because I don't think that my human experience has not caught up with my spiritual experience.

Right. My spiritual experience was very, it wasn't, it wasn't overriding my human experience. It was just really strong. It was, some of it was dissociation and some [00:47:00] of it was just, I, you know, I know in my heart, I know the knowing that this was a, this was an, this was a lesson. This was guidance. This was spirit.

I also feel good having one child, like there's a lot of completion for me, but there is still an emotional experience that wasn't cared for because it, I just couldn't possibly do it. I had a part that's dissociating that really saved me at that time. Yeah. And it's funny because I'm having a reading later with this, this guy here in LA and maybe this is, maybe he's just knocking on the door being like, I got to come through.

Perhaps. I'll call you later and tell you. Okay. That sounds great. Yeah. And it's weird. Can you see even how like I slightly touch into the emotion and then I pull it right back out. It's really tender and it's also just super, there's a strong dissociative boundary around it as well. Like it's like, don't feel too much of that.

Pain, you know, well, it's, we, we build up to it. That's nice. [00:48:00] We build up to it. And it's kind of like what you were saying before where you're like, I need To be in my logic right now and I'll deal with my emotions later. And that's actually such a good IFS thing. It's like, you have a part that's logic and reason it's taking over and that's necessary right now.

I'm 100 percent necessary in my life anyway. Yeah. I have to be the logical one. Yeah. I like that for you. Okay. So I've got this. Hit. So that would be Claire Cognizant that I feel that I know well, I mean, feel is nce, but then the knowing though, but the knowing is knowing clear cognizant. The, so like there's a sense of knowing right now.

Yes, that's clear, cognizant, so co but, but when I feel my arms go numb and my hands, like, what is that? So for me, what I think it is, is that it's, it's. The, the thing that the angels or your guides have chosen have like, okay, this is your sign. Yeah. Okay. This is your sign that we are, we're connecting. Yeah.

This is what it is. This is how we're going to do, how you'll know. When you see like [00:49:00] Buddhas and you see like images like statues and hands are up like this, this is like holding the energy, right? Because this just happens to be happening in my whole life. Particularly when I'm on stage or in these rooms, it's like, just, I feel almost like I can like move the energy in the room.

Yeah, absolutely. With my, my hands. Yeah, if I do a larger group, I try to have people in, that are on staff that are in the room. Holding the energy. Holding the space for the room. And that's how they do it. With their hands up. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Holding the space in case you can actually, yeah. No, I mean, it's literally what's happening.

Okay, so we've got that knowing and that sensation. Mm hmm. Yeah. Okay. I don't know. I let's pick one more card. Okay, I'm gonna do when you're gonna do it. Okay. Now this one We gotta put it back. You never know if I'm gonna get you might get it again You don't want it to whatever cards you put in there you put you put back in.

That's right And this card, I feel like I still need a little, need I guess is okay. I still want a little bit more direction here. Sure. Direction on whatever the guides want me to know. [00:50:00] That's nice. Yes. Yeah, you can say I want direction in this area. I want direction. This card's called Animal Guides Tarot.

This is Radley Valentine's deck. Let's put a little link in the show notes for you because this is a beautiful one with the owl and the butterfly. Okay, let's see what's coming through. Night of fire. Passionate, charismatic, confident, restless. An opportunity arises that needs your attention right away.

Moving quickly is important, yet there's nothing you can't handle if you follow your inner guidance. The Dolphin. The Dolphin. And Dolphins are about community, okay? So it's, it's working within a community to, to accomplish what you want. Knight of Fire is a great card. It's very passionate and very much about, they're, they're, they're kind of a knight in shining armor in a way, but it's, it's literally this energy of, I am going to go after what I want and I'm going to go get it right now.

Yeah. I feel that happening. Yeah, there's something that's going on in my life, and I was talking about it with my friends, and they're like, Oh, well, that kind of thing usually takes a really long time. It could [00:51:00] be a year before And intuitively, I'm like, And I'm not attached to it. It's been something I've been, like, working on for, like, two decades, right?

I'm like, I don't really think that's the story for me. I mean, I think this is fast. Yeah, I don't think this is gonna be like lit up like quick, but so it's just sort of a knowing right? Okay, lighting it up your turn. Okay. It's like this is like we're doing like, you know, what are those like drinking games?

You pick a card Now you drink your tea drink your tea. That's right. We are cool and boring Cool and boring. This is far from boring You know, it's like Yeah, there's nothing boring. There's nothing cool about it. I don't think there's anything boring. I mean, personally There's nothing boring about this at all.

No, there's nothing boring about this at all. Anyway, so the card for me is Nine of Fire. Ooh, didn't I just get a fire one? You did. You got Night of Fire. So, Night of Fire and Nine of Fire. Cool. So, this card says, You've worked hard, and what you've created is impressive and worthy of protecting. Annoying challenges may pop up, but do not worry, [00:52:00] you'll get through this just as you have in the past.

Cool. You know what's kind of funny? I feel like we pulled these cards for each other too. Yeah. Because mine was like, get to it! Right. And that one feels really good for me too. Yep. Nice one. Yeah. So let's now pull a card for the community. Let's pull a card. And this is, so wherever you are guys listening, trust that this card is your card.

Right. Right? Like whoever is listening to this in any form, whether it's a decade from now or right in this moment, wherever you are in 2024, maybe it's 2023. 2028. I don't know. Right. And wherever you are in your life in this moment, this card that Radley's about to pull is the card for you. Right. Take it in.

And it's going to be for everybody. Everybody's going to be like, Oh my God, that's my card. I can't believe it happened. Because the universe is magical and it can do that. It can do that. But you can even if you want, as I shuffle the cards, be thinking, you know what the question I want an answer to is?

This is my question. This is my question. This is my question. Put your question out there now, everyone. I'm going to put mine out. [00:53:00] This is for me too. Josh, you do it too. So it's nine of earth, nine of Earth. It's a cat. It's a cat. Oh my people. It's a, it's, it's, it's a ragdoll cat. I love him. And it says Your success has brought you financial security and the reward you of much deserved time off to enjoy your own company.

You may suddenly have a brilliant idea for a business or self-employment opportunity that will be very successful. You just pulled that for me, Ben. Yeah. Well, there you go. But for anybody, for everybody, nine of earth is not just about like some sort of financial successful thing. It can be. But it's really more about taking a moment and going, look what I have accomplished.

Look where I am in this moment. I can take a second and just breathe it in. I can just be in this minute and go, I'm just going to accept, I'm going to have gratitude for what I've done, and I'm going to be aware that, yeah, maybe there's more I want to do. [00:54:00] Maybe there's more that I want, but there's so much that I've already accomplished.

And so I'm going to just be in that for a minute. And just love it. The best is that it's just a cat chilling on a sofa. On the corner of a sofa. It looks like my Jimmy Blue. And it's so funny because I feel that so deeply.

I started the new year. I created all these boundaries. I released so many things and I said to myself after I submitted my 10th book, I sent it in and I was saying to myself, How little can you do today?

How, how can, the accomplishment today is to do nothing. And so what did I do? I laid down on the sofa with my cat. Oh, there you go. Wow. We have come so far, listeners. We've got, we've done so much. Let's take a rest. Let's moment. Yeah. Yeah. As usual. Best show ever. Oh, you're so sweet. Thank you. I could hug you for the rest of the day.

You're a regular here now. Thanks. Come back to New York. Okay. When you're ready to just come [00:55:00] for a little, little, little NYC vibes. Okay. I just want to say to you, my friend, may you feel guided, supported, blessed, held, loved, connected, and boundaried at this gentle time in your life. And you're good, all is well, all is well.

Our teacher is here, all is well. She's got your hair hand on your shoulder, Louise, and she's saying all is well, Radley.

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