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We all have psychic abilities. 

On today’s episode of Dear Gabby, I’m joined by four incredible psychic mediums–including Rebecca Rosen and Tyler Henry—to teach you how to connect with your spirit guides and angels!

You’ll learn:

  • The different ways we can connect with spirit (the Clair senses)
  • 4 Archangels to call on when you’re in a big life shift
  • How our intuition is connected to divine guidance
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dear gabby #243 Jan 20, 2025 spiritual connection

connect to your spirit guides & angels I gabby bernstein, tyler henry and more psychic mediums

[00:00:00] The following podcast is a dear media production.

Hey there. Welcome to Dear Gabby. I'm your host, Gabby Bernstein. And if you landed here, it is absolutely no accident. It means that you're ready to feel good and manifest a life beyond your wildest dreams. Let's get started.

Welcome back. Welcome back to Dear Gabby. Today's a really beautiful episode on connecting with spirit guides and angels. You're going to hear from my dear friends, They're psychics, they're mediums, they're extraordinary humans. You're going to hear from my friend Rebecca Rosen, the one and only Tyler Henry, and my sweet angel expert, Radley Valentine, and a beautiful high vibe conversation with one of my besties, Marianne DeMarco, who is an extraordinary medium.

And what I love about this episode is that it's filled to the brim with exciting ways to connect to spirit and how to let your spirit guides help you and welcome in that presence of your [00:01:00] spirit guides and learn how to listen to the guidance that's available to you. You all have psychic capacities, you all have mediumship within you, and it's all about a few simple steps to open up and welcome that connection.

And this is a really great episode if this is new content for you because this is going to really blow your mind. First up, psychic medium Rebecca Rosen, who explains that we all have soul contracts, or as she calls it, a loose blueprint for what we are here to do in this life. Kind of blew my mind. I was really excited for you to hear this.

Let's dive in. Enjoy the show. I want to start with what does it mean to be a medium? Because some folks talk about being a psychic and some folks talk about being a medium. What's the difference? So the The difference between a psychic and a medium is everybody's psychic, right? To some degree. And a medium, it's taking it one step further and you are relying on outside discarnate energies to feed you information.

Okay? [00:02:00] So psychic readings, you basically use your intuition to tune in to somebody's energy and you read the past, present, future. Mediumship is downloading spirit messages, whether it's from departed loved ones or pets or angels or guides. It's all the same. And so mediumship is a lot more involved. You know, I do believe everybody can communicate with their loved ones, their team and spirit themselves and for themselves.

Yeah. But some of us have what I say, an antenna, not just, or we have a satellite, not an antenna. And we are able to more easily do it for other people. Yeah. Like somebody is going to be good at soccer, but they're not going to be messy. Right? Yeah. Like you're the messy of mediumship. Take that as a compliment.

Take it. Actually, I would totally say that you're the messy of mediumship. So, so with that in mind, are you also giving psychic readings at the same time? Yeah. Okay. It's, you know. All mediums are psychics. Okay. Not all psychics are mediums. Okay. That's the [00:03:00] difference. Yeah. So what I like to do is rather than somebody coming to me for me to predict their future, because I know you're in, in line with this.

We are co creators of our future. The future is not set in stone, and this is all about, you know, we do have soul contracts. We have a loose blueprint of what we're here to do, but the future is really dependent on you being in alignment with that and choosing it every day. If you show up and go with the flow, your future will unfold the way it's destined to.

But you have free will, and so it can change. So we have a loose blueprint. Yeah, so let me break this down because I like the way you said that though, I'm getting this. Okay, go ahead. So before we're born, we choose the lessons that we need to come in and work on. And what I have heard is most souls have anywhere between two to five lessons they're actively working on in any one lifetime.

Okay. So for those of us who are more ambitious, we probably chose five. [00:04:00] And, but the point is these lessons give us opportunities and to grow, to evolve. And that's where I always say it's not happening to you. It's happening for you. If you're struggling, right. If you're going through a challenge or a trauma that you're trying to heal. It is imbalanced karma, either from other lifetimes that you need to come and heal.

Or I also talk about it's passed down intergenerational. Yeah. Right. So 100%. So you have this loose blueprint and you come in and if you go with the flow and you're in alignment with your higher self, your higher selves guidance, your team and spirit, life can be easy and fun, even though you're still doing the work.

But for most of us, We have the ego, right? And so we get stuck in ego and then it's pain and struggle and suffering. And so that's why I like to remind people. So the minute you recognize that you have the power to change it, right? You can recreate. You could also change it by [00:05:00] even seeing it as a learning opportunity.

Exact seeing your life as a learning opportunity. Change the lens through which you see it. You're not a victim. Mm hmm. You actually chose this. Mm hmm. Mm hmm. Right? It's not happening to you. It's happening for you. Right. And there's a gift in it if you choose to see it through that lens. I remember that beautiful story Wayne Dyer shared in one of his books about how his soul chose to come back into this life to learn forgiveness and self reliance.

And I think it was self reliance, I hope I'm not misquoting him, but it was the whole story about how his father, so he was born into this household and his father was an alcoholic and you know, left the mother and you know, all this stuff. And through that journey with his father, he learned forgiveness and he also, through living in all these different foster homes, learned that self reliance.

Yeah. Exactly. And so when you can recognize the why behind your struggle, it takes you out of victim and it puts you into a really empowered place. Where you can then be the co creator of what comes next. [00:06:00] So you can renegotiate if you don't like your sole contract and the way it's going or your sole contract is fine.

It's the choices you've been making in shadow, right? That have gotten you stuck or repeating patterns or, you know, in victim. So you can have your soul contract, but you could be making choices in shadow, right? So choices in fear, I suppose, right? That are probably keeping you from the growth. Exactly. And the life learning.

Yeah. So, yeah, sometimes we are our worst enemies. We get in our own way and it's usually because we operate from our head and not our heart. And I always am told by spirit, our intuition, our guidance, our truth comes from our heart, not our head. So our feelings, our guidance, but so many of us have gotten out of touch with our feelings.

And so we're making choices from fear or shadow, not light and love. And so the key is how do you come back to your truth [00:07:00] and, and really get in touch with why you're here. And for each person that's different. So how do I know? Just thinking right now. I'm like, okay. Well, what is my soul contract? What is soul contract, right?

Yeah. Soul contract. What is my soul blueprint? It's a loose script or a blueprint of the life you agreed to before you were born. Okay. So there's my soul blueprint. And then what are the two to five lessons I wanted to learn? So I have heard there's about, I have witnessed and thousands of readings.

There's about 30 different universal themes you're working on. Anywhere from greed. And, you know, scarcity consciousness to kindness and generosity and self worth and self love. Like there's a lot of them, but you can figure it out. And that is my book. My book gives you, it's like a roadmap to help you get in touch with what is it?

What are the patterns you keep [00:08:00] recreating where you've stuck in your life? Right. A constant loop. And you're like, why is this happening to me? Or why isn't this happening for me? Right. It takes you out of victim when you step back and you can identify the struggle and then you can figure out the feelings that go along with that.

And then you can change it once you're clear. So I talk all about like the I am. Yeah. First of all, this is so cool because people can actually take themselves out of victim from a perspective that's a spiritual perspective, not just from a therapeutic perspective. Right? Yeah. Stepping back and recognizing from a higher self or soul perspective, Oh, so my issues with, you know, money issues, let's say.

It's not really about money. It's about worth. It's not financial worth. It's self worth. Mm hmm. And I don't feel worthy. Therefore, I always sabotage or I give all my money away. So when you can step back and say, Oh, I signed up for this and I'm testing myself [00:09:00] and the lessons keep repeating themselves over and over.

Until you figure it out. Right. Until you figure it out. Now, I think I might have just realized one of my soul contracts. Is that right? Like, or assignments? Absolutely. You call it a soul contract or a soul assignment? It's, so they're life assignments. Soul life assignments. So one of my life assignments, I think I just figured out, is to really live in authentic truth.

To know authentic truth. That feels so right. Because I've been in the pursuit of it for a long time. But, but you're, you've integrated it. I've only integrated it like, yeah, like last week. Because, because, no, it wasn't last week, but. No, but fully integrated it. Okay, that. In areas it was there, but in some big areas it wasn't.

So it's because you have the courage to be vulnerable and go deep and share in this last book that I just finished Which is brilliant and so much overlap to what I just wrote in this What's your heaven book [00:10:00] that spirit is talking through many of us right now because it's all about being authentically you right, and unapologetically you and imperfectly you.

And that's a nice phrase and it's a nice truth that we know and it's a nice beautiful spiritual conversation in rooms that we may host and be in your authentic truth be in your authentic truth. I think a lot of people walk around wanting that yearning for that but have no idea what that means.

Yes. And that It really rings true for me. I think that for my lifetime, I have been in pursuit of releasing all of the pretenses of who I thought I was or should be to come back to me.

Isn't Rebecca amazing? She just always just blows my mind [00:11:00] and she's just been such an amazing channel for me in my life.

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Next up, we have the Hollywood medium himself, Tyler Henry. This was such a really wonderful conversation, and honestly, we could've gone on for a few hours here. In this highlight, Tyler talks about how we all have the ability to tap into our psychic and intuitive nature, and how some of us may be clairsentient, and some of us may be clairvoyant.

And luckily, he breaks this all down. He teaches you the clairs and what each one means, and it's just a gorgeous, gorgeous episode that I don't want you to miss. Listen now and enjoy. We all have an intuition, an inner intuition or inner knowledge, and how we receive that might be a little different, but we all have the ability to tap in.

And so I think using it in a practical sense, you know, we all get first impressions when we shake someone's [00:15:00] hand. We look to our animals and they give us the look, whether they have to go potty or whether they have to go, you know, get food or water. You kind of see examples where intuition plays into our day to day lives and people don't even call it intuition.

It's. Just a form of discernment, and I think can be a lot less woo woo than people think. A lot less woo woo. And it's really in the zeitgeist right now. People are, are so open and willing to have these kinds of conversations and in many ways want them and seek them. And I, I see a girlfriend of mine who's like a big business person, right?

She, I saw, I saw her at like a women's conference. She's like, I want to be a medium. And I was like, you are, you know, you have the ability and your desire to connect in that way. is everything. Sure. How do you feel about that from the standpoint of this sort of this desire for more people to lift the veil?

Is that a good thing? Is that is that make you [00:16:00] nervous? What do you think about that? I think that intention is everything. And I think with anything, you know, caution is valuable. It's important to not get lost in the sauce. I think like any tool, things can be used for positive or Destructive purposes, and certainly when we talk about tools of discernment or where you can get information, certainly there's people who fall on both sides of the curtain there.

But I would say, you know, just largely imploring people to implement intuition in their lives in tangible ways is really where I would start before I would read for others. I would encourage people to have a coherent understanding of their own inner worlds. and ensure that their life reflects discernment.

And that's kind of in essence where it comes into walking the walk, not just talking the talk. And, and something that I hope more people can get turned on to and, and just develop. And I'm very encouraging. I think we all have that innate intuition. That was really well said. Like any [00:17:00] tool can be used wisely or can you be used wrongly.

That was really beautiful and I think that there are instances I see with folks that they start to feel the mystical and they start to feel the veil lift and they can connect and then they kind of like just trying to use these relationships with spirit for magic tricks and that's a bunch of bulls t so I want to call that out right now that this is like anything else a tool to be used for good and yes it can always benefit us to have that kind of connection but To stay in alignment with what our intentions are is really a beautiful, beautiful way to describe that and to define that.

Now you identify as a clairvoyant. Now, would you define for the listeners, the Claire's so we can get a sense of the different Claire's? Well, you know, they keep, I feel like every year adding more and more Claire's. Is that right? Or sentience, they keep coming up with all these senses. But starting with clairvoyance, clairvoyance [00:18:00] being clear sight, it derives from a French word that translates to just that.

And it really, in essence, kind of speaks to the strong mental impressions that a person can receive. And that being the primary modality. They receive intuitive info. A lot of people think clairvoyance is generally like seeing people walking around or seeing people in your bed. While that might be the experience for some, it's definitely not that way for me.

It's really a very strong internal active imagination as Carl Jung coined it. But there's so many different aspects to the clairs. You have clear audience, which is clear hearing, clear sentience, clear knowing, clear feeling. And in essence, any sense that you perceive the outer world can be free game for the inner world.

To communicate, you know, and kind of act as a canvas. To paint their story onto. And that's really what the body is to me as a medium. So you would say that maybe somebody that might be more imaginative might lean clairvoyant. Could that be possible? Sometimes, you know, I think of [00:19:00] this distinguishment that was made in anthropology of thick boundary people and thin boundary people and study and research has shown that most people kind of tend to fall into one category.

The other, generally the thin boundary people are going to be creative. fluid, both generally in their beliefs and lifestyles. And you have really thick boundary people who just as they don't let things out, they often don't let things in. And those types of people make great accountants, great money people, you know, great people who are more on the quantifiable side versus the qualitative side of things.

Creativity, art, feeling, love, emotion, subjectivity. Those are all qualitative versus quantitative. So figuring out where you fall in that realm, Is a good starting place to figure how intuition might speak to you. That's a great way to put it. I never thought about thick boundary people. Yeah. Yeah. It's really and it makes sense because the more open and receptive you are, the more you [00:20:00] say, yes, I'm ready to receive some risks with that.

I don't mean to interrupt, but there is personality traits. There's something to be said about having boundaries of that. They protect us, you know, on some large level. And so I think why you see a lot of people Drawn into the mystical realm. And unfortunately, sometimes people get lost in the sauce, as we say, requires a certain degree of anti structure type of personality that's willing to take risk to kind of swim in the waters that most people would drown in.

And that's something that sometimes results in people, you know, having negative experiences. So to your friend's point earlier about wanting to become a medium. I know you mentioned this person was like a business person. My encouragement for anyone listening would be to consider why. You want to be a medium and see what the answer is for one.

And then secondarily, how you can implement that answer into your own life versus focusing on others. And if you see success there, then, you know, we can talk. Beautiful. [00:21:00] Yeah. Because I think that sometimes people get a little confused about the why. Also, I think that you mentioned boundaries. When you are a channel to receive, you also want to make sure that while you may be thin boundaried, uh, that you have clear defined boundaries around the type of spirit you're open or willing to connect to, because you don't want to be a sponge for whatever's going on out there.

I like to use the metaphor. We, I'm throwing a party and I'm not just going to open the door and let whoever the hell it wants to come in, come in. Yes. I'm going to have a guest list. I love it. have a very clear guest list. So how do you create those spiritual boundaries for yourself? Because you've got a lot of people, a lot of energy, a lot of dead people, a lot of people all around you.

What's your boundaries? How do you do it? I would say that my boundaries I find are more applicable to the living than the departed because I have such a strong. relationship with my spirituality, with my [00:22:00] guides, I really feel a sense of innate protection, a sense of distinguishment that gets made there that's even beyond me.

Now, when it comes to living, breathing human beings, that's a whole other story. And that can be where sometimes I do deal with being a people pleaser, having the issues with boundaries, wanting to say yes to everything. And that's where I find it's almost most necessary in the nature of being a medium.

You're dealing with grieving people. You're dealing with an inherent desperation, and I tell people that grief is very self centered. When people are grieving, it feels like the world has swallowed them up, opened up, and taken them down. And when you're in that experience, it is just so intense and immersive, and so it really speaks to the value of boundaries.

And for me, having alone time is one of the biggest ways I do that.

I love Tyler. That was so gorgeous. I'm so glad you guys got to hear that. Next up is my sweet friend, [00:23:00] Radley Valentine. He's an angel expert and when you're in his presence, you just feel this warmth and glow around him. And he's the man who has a direct line to the angels. This is an amazing one. Enjoy.

Pluto. Marched across my Mercury, my Venus, my Mars, my sun, my rising, it just went boom, boom, boom, boom. And Pluto just turns things up upside down and so literally in that time my 14 year marriage ended. My, I moved from across the country. I got a new job and then I switched to a spiritual career.

Literally every aspect of my life just got totally like upheaval. Yes. And so, you know, those are the breakthrough moments. Those are the best moments. They, they suck when you're experiencing them. Oh my God, they're so hard. What comes out the other side is miraculous. How do you rely on your angels in [00:24:00] these times of upheaval.

Oh my gosh. I mean, like everyone, it's like, again, now I've got angel bumps again. There, it's, it is everything. I have every television in my entire house turned to a YouTube station that plays angel music with graphics of angels. Literally everything. It's like I'm surrounding my house with angel energy.

I have. For Archangels that I'm working with personally, I call this an Archangel prescription. Yes. And so for PEEP, I always like to work with Michael because Michael is safety and protection. We really can't get anywhere if we don't feel safe. And so Michael is safety and protection, but also using a sort of like to sever our energetic connections to the past.

Because the past can hold us back too. It's, it's no more looking backwards, no more driving with a rear view mirror. It is moving forward. That's right. And, you know, and then people who really care about abundance and prosperity, they might bring in Ariel for people who are public speakers, Gabriel, right?

Exactly. [00:25:00] Uriel brings life transformation. So it's, it's this thing of like creating this little mixture for yourself where you're like, okay, this is how these are the angels I want, but never, ever forget. Cause you know, what a big thing I am for guardian angels. Never forget your guardian angels. So folks out there right now.

They can curate their own angel prescription? Yes. Archangel prescription is actually something that I came up with. And so imagine yourself in a square room like this. And so, and each of the four corners are four archangels. All right. And you are the princess in the middle. Okay, and so you're standing there and you're getting this support.

And so I always love to think about Archangel Michael to the back left of me. Michael is just, because again, safety, protection, life purpose, cutting away things that no longer serve you, people in your life, whatever, that's what Michael's great for, and we kind of always need that. Michael, just like the universe always has your back, think of Michael, [00:26:00] always has your back.

That's why I like him in the back left. And then I put three other archangels around people on, based on what particular issue that they are concerned about. So let's make one up. Or do you have one you want? No, okay. So let's make one up. So let's say that somebody is really interested in 2024 about their abundance and prosperity 2024 is an eight year. 2 plus 0 plus 2 plus 4 equals 8.

State and angel numbers is abundance and prosperity. We wanna take advantage of that, don't we? Yeah, of course we do. So who else are we gonna want? Well, I think one of the things that we're going to want is we're gonna want Archangel, R-E-L-R-E-L is the archangel of nature, but from nature comes material things.

And so REL is this archangel that brings us abundance and prosperity. She has a feminine energy. Archangels are neither masculine nor feminine. It doesn't really matter, but they have an energy. So, Michael, safety, protection, sword. That feels [00:27:00] masculine to human beings for the most part. Ariel, flitting through the forest with the angels and stuff, but, uh, with the animals and stuff, but she has this energy.

So, we put her in the left front because we want someone that's going to bring us prosperity and abundance leading the way. So to the back right, I'm going to say Uriel, so Uriel comes in a golden color and Archangels Uriel brings us brilliant epiphanies, amazing ideas that lead to emotional healing that leads directly to life transformation.

A lot of people that are having abundance and prosperity feel like they need a transformation. They want the next thing. And so Uriel. Also, though, because he is the light or fire of God, you can think of Uriel as being like, you know, those spotlights that go across the sky. Think of him like that. He's not a bat signal.

He's an angel signal. And so he's going across the [00:28:00] sky, helping to bring in for us the attention of the world and the attention of abundance and prosperity that we are looking for. And then finally, in the right front, I'm going to bring in Archangel Raguel. That's R A G U E L. Raguel is the archangel. His name means the friend of God.

So, Raguel can bring in all these people that can help you. He brings in the people that can open doors for you, people who can introduce you to the right other people, this whole thing of bringing harmony to relationships that are in discord. And so, Raguel has this ability to, like, Smooth things out between people so that things can get done.

Things can be successful. So with this, Roguel, I knew that guy. Roguel is a great dude. Okay. He just smooths things out. He smooths things out between people. He makes people have harmony between each other, but he also introduces us to all the right people who can open doors for us. Oh, Raguel, let's talk to that guy.

[00:29:00] Yes. So, if I wanted to work with Raguel right now. So, Raguel comes in a pale blue color. Oh, you're wearing kind of a pale blue right now. All over your shirt. I do, I have some blue. Okay. So, Raguel comes in pale blue. And, and, so, Raguel, because he's the friend of God, it feels almost like getting that, it feels like walking off an elevator and bumping into Gabby Bernstein and getting a great big hug.
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Okay. How cute is Radley? I'm obsessed with him. I'm obsessed with him. And now to close out this episode, there could be no one better than my beautiful sister, Marianne DeMarco. She's truly divine. Marianne shows us how following our gut and our intuition is not just random, but rather something that's divinely guided by spirit.

The key is that they are, they are showing you your storyline already lives within us. We have access to that inner knowing to our inner healing, to our inner guidance, to the choices that we can make it lies within us. So our guides are saying, you have this information. We're going to help you access it.

By giving you guidance and signs and symbols. And then you have to act on that, you know, free will is a big deal in manifestation. So if they're [00:32:00] saying to you, take the earlier train today, and you say, yeah, I think I'm gonna take the earlier train today. You take that train and that got you to the office earlier so that you were on the elevator with your boss.

and able to strike up a conversation that helped you get that promotion that you were manifesting. That's the nudge. That's the breadcrumbs. Yeah. Yeah. I think I have so many moments in my life where I can just say, Oh my God, I was totally meant to be there. That was not even a question. So we have these guides.

They're kind of like these sideline cheerleaders and coaches opening these doors for us. The more in tune we are with the energy of. Gratitude, which is the energy of the universe, the energy of love, the more we're in alignment with that spiritual energy, the easier it will be for us to hear our guides.

That's the, that's the key there. And when you said earlier that your guides are saying to you, go get on that train earlier, in what ways would one [00:33:00] hear that guidance? I'm glad that you said here, because hearing is one way, feeling is another, your inner knowing is another. We want to know the clairs, your clairvoyancy, your clairaudience, your cognizance, my favorite, that inner knowing.

You also want to pay attention to how they're sending you messages from the outside in. So who are they bringing you? So if you've been thinking about. taking a wonderful course about writing from in a masterclass because you've been thinking about writing a book and then all of a sudden the wonderful Gabby Bernstein puts up something about a masterclass to write about and you're like, Oh, I was thinking about writing that.

I was just thinking about taking a class about that. Right. So, and then you click it and then we have these repeatable themes. What's coming in. Repetition is important. Are you paying attention then to those signs that are coming? So they can use environmentally ways to get you. They're going to come in that way.

So it's many different ways you want to open yourself up to all of that every single [00:34:00] way that they can access you and get you to pay attention. They want to get your attention. So yes, it's what you're hearing. Yes. It's what you're hearing. It's what you're seeing. It's what you're feeling. It's what's coming at you through repetitive themes, all of that.

And the more that we have a relationship with our guides, the more we work with them, the more it becomes really obvious. And then it's instinctual. Love it. Love it. And like any conversation or relationship, the more we engage in it, the easier it is to connect to it. So thinking about it like a conversation, just, just share a little bit about what that means because you started the steps of sort of thinking about gratitude, getting into the energy and then asking, right?

Like how would you open up that dialogue with your guys? For me, it's a conversation very much like I'm having with you. That's how much I trust them. Be authentically you. It doesn't have to be a very formal practice. I have a lot of students who come to me who are like, I am now going to sit and [00:35:00] manifest my guides.

And, you know, it becomes this very formal thing. I think that's a lot of work. So what I tell my students is just have a conversation with them like you're having with a friend and then allow that response to come through. The energy might sound like it's coming in your own voice. You then can either write what you hear, just sit with it and express gratitude for it.

But for me, it is very much a conversation. If I wanted to think about something that I was worried about, let's say for argument's sake, I often access my guides in times of worry. And so I'll say to them, how can you help me here? What is it that I'm not seeing? What can you show me in order to help me heal in this moment?

And my guides, I will hear, sit and do a meditation. Why don't you write about this? Call a friend and talk about it, right? Do some inner work. I love that language of, uh, thank you for revealing to [00:36:00] me what I need to know. Absolutely. Oh, I love that because what's so beautiful about that is the thank you.

The thank you is affirming that they're there and that they're hooking you up, right? It's, it's re it's reinforcing the belief like you said at the beginning of it. Well, Gabby, if you called a friend and a friend was there for you in your time of need, you would thank them. Right? Or if you were being a friend gave you an opportunity or a loved one gave you an opportunity to accomplish something in your life.

You took that guidance. You would thank them. This is the same thing. These are your friends. They know you the best and expressing gratitude for them is not so much for them. They know you're grateful, but it's really to make that vibrational connection. It reassures that belief system. And not only that, when you start seeing the validation of what they can bring you, It's miraculous.

So I'm always saying to my guides, now you guys are just showing off. Like this is amazing what you could do. So my conversations [00:37:00] extend even further where I'm saying, come on, are you guys serious? This was amazing. You showed me exactly what I needed. And even saying thank you in the request is like, is like me texting you and saying, Marianne, thanks in advance.

I know that I. Need some help here. And I know that you're gonna help like it's the assumption and the note Like I know that you're one of my best friends. I can call you and be like, thank you so much Just hook me up right now. It's it's getting grounded in that belief that there is support right there right now Totally it's and it's not questioning like who's out there who can help me.

It's like, thank you. You're here. Come help me out Let's do it. And you yes and you can add for the greater good of all concerned So your intention is in there as well. So not, not only are you giving gratitude in advance, I absolutely love, but you're saying for the greater good. So your ego is in check, right?

When you're asking, when you're manifesting, especially when we want to always make sure that that ego is in check. And I always add for the greater good, including yourself. [00:38:00] Everyone who's listening, make sure that that means including yourself, because sometimes when we're manifest real hard and it's not happening, we won't express gratitude.

But I always feel those are the times to express it the most because you're being protected. There's something that's coming your way that could possibly be better. So everybody who's out there who's hardcore manifesting, who's frustrated because it's not happening, even in that moment, we say, thank you.

Because something better is coming. Especially in that moment. That's right. Especially in that moment. We want to reinforce that things are okay, our manifestations aren't working out, alright.

Thank you guys, because it's not happening because something better is coming. It's such a different mindset. If something, we always say, you know, from the universe has your back, obstacles or detours in the right direction, rejection is protection.

So we, we can see that when we say thank you, we are reinforcing the idea, the truth. that it's not working out for a [00:39:00] reason. And that's actually great. Let's go into using our guides as a source of showing us the signs that we are indeed on the right track. Because we talk a lot about signs, you and I, in my books, all of it.

in your books. And what we would share typically is one of the ways that your guides can communicate to you are sending you these messages. It could be a specific sign. It could be just like you said earlier, you've been thinking about writing a book and then boom, you get the sign that Gabby Bernstein has a book course or whatever that might be.

So these moments of synchronicity. and literally straight up deliverance of the sign. And so when we're in that place of receiving those signs, before we even get into that practice, it is important to start to teach this from the place of knowing that if you don't get your sign, that's guidance. So let's talk about how we use these relationships with our guides to manifest and how signs would be part of that process.

Signs. [00:40:00] are a wonderful validation. What I say about signs is ask for it. Try and make it unique. I think I've talked about asking for peacocks. I've asked for turtles. I mean, you can come up with anything that feels good to you. But my biggest thing that I teach about science is once you ask for it, set it and forget it.

Because when you keep asking for the sign, it means you're not trusting your guides. You're questioning it. You're playing games with them. You're like playing games. Yep. Can you just show me that turtle one more time? I promise you it's far more fun to let it happen organically because they're happy to deliver.

They're happy to deliver. And when they don't. We must accept that as well. We must accept the fact that I haven't seen the sign. And so I'm going to now continue to sit in my inner knowing, basically what your guides want you to do is to have this become [00:41:00] so instinctual that you have awakened this sense within yourself that you can do this on your own, along with them always.

So they're always, they want you to trust them because they're basically giving you the tools to awaken the light within you, the knowing within you in order. to hear your guidance with more clarity instinctually. It's beautiful. I know it was a lot to take in, so feel free to just repeat this episode as many times as you need to just to really take it in.

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