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Have you been seeing the numbers 11:11 everywhere lately? That’s a beautiful sign from the Universe, a wink to let you know you’re in spiritual alignment and that you’re being guided. It’s also preparing you for one of the most potent days of the year for manifestation: November 11th.

On 11/11, the veil between the physical and spiritual worlds is thin, creating a powerful portal that heightens your intuition and amplifies your ability to attract your desires. This is a day to get intentional about what you want to create in your life.

In this episode, I’m giving you everything you need to prepare for this energetic gateway. I’ll share a simple and beautiful scripting ritual you can do beforehand to get into the feeling state of your desires. When you align with the feeling of what you want, you become a magnet for it!

In this episode, you’ll learn:

  • What the 11:11 portal is and why it’s such a powerful day for manifesting your dreams.
  • A simple scripting ritual to do before November 11th to get clear on what you want to create and feel into your future self.
  • Channeled messages from my Super Attractor deck to prepare your energy for receiving.
  • How to harness this potent energy to accelerate your manifestations for the year ahead.
  • An invitation to join me for a free live event on 11/11 to amplify our collective energy!

This is your invitation to step through this portal with clear intention. Stop waiting for your dreams to happen and start co-creating them with the Universe. Press play now and let’s get you ready!

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This podcast is intended to educate, inspire, and support you on your personal journey towards inner peace. I am not a psychologist or a medical doctor and do not offer any professional health or medical advice. If you are suffering from any psychological or medical conditions, please seek help from a qualified health professional.

dear gabby #288 Nov 03, 2025 manifesting

the 11:11 portal is coming: use this scripting ritual to manifest your desires

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Hey there. Welcome to Dear Gabby. I'm your host Gabby Bernstein, and if you landed here, it is absolutely no accident. It means that you're ready to feel good and manifest a life beyond your wildest dreams. Let's get started.

Welcome back. Welcome back to Dear Gabby, my friends. I have a question for you. Have you been seeing 11? 11 everywhere? Guess what? That's not a coincidence. It's a powerful sign from the universe that you are in alignment with your spiritual connection. It's a sign that you're being guided, you're being supported, and it's a moment of synchronicity that you don't want to ignore.

It's actually preparing you for one of the most potent days of the year, November 11th. We are coming up on 11, 11 people, and on 1111, the energy between you and the [00:01:00] universe and the human space and the spiritual realm, that veil is lifted. The energy is heightened. Your intuition is heightened. Your manifesting ability is heightened.

Your creative capacity is massively heightened in numerology, the number 11 is a master number. It's a number of intuition and it's a number of spiritual awakening, and when doubled, it creates a powerful moment of alignment. And it's a gateway. A gateway that heightens your ability to connect and to receive guidance and to manifest with clarity and energy and intention.

This is a day to get really clear and intentional about what you want to create in your life. And so today I'm gonna give you everything you need to prepare for this 1111 portal that is right around the corner and explain to you exactly what the 1111 portal is. I'm also gonna give you a very simple, powerful ritual that you can do before 1111 to prepare for some major shifts.

I'm gonna pull three cards from my super attract deck, and then I'm gonna [00:02:00] channel messages for you to prepare your energy for this big 1111 portal. So it is actually happening on this day. The 1111 portal is a time when our energy is amplified. The number one in numerology represents a new beginning.

And it represents leadership and also represents the start of a creative process. And so in this case, it's co-creating your desires with the universe. But the number 11 is this master number, and it's known as the illuminator or the messenger. And it carries this high vibrational frequency and this insight of intuition.

And FYI, my birthday was 11 one, so I know a lot about those numbers. So when you see 1111, the energy is super magnified. And so those two sets of elevens are actually these pillars, and they're creating this symbolic portal for you as a gateway between the physical world and the spiritual realm. And so when you see 1111, let that be a gentle reminder to you to just pause.

And notice if you're having a negative thought or an [00:03:00] attack thought or a fear thought, and just gently witness the thought and shift into something that you appreciate. Shift into something that you're grateful for. Maybe shift into something that you desire. That's a moment when you see 1111 to to pause, to pray, to offer something up.

And to just remember, this is a creative opportunity. It's a little gentle wink from the universe, that you're being guided, that you're being supported, and that you can actually use this aligned moment to create. So use those moments of 1111 to start to attract your desires into your life. Now we've got this day, 1111 coming up.

We can use this symbolic date as a reminder that the universe is very receptive to our thoughts and intentions and energy specifically on this day. So it's a really powerful moment for spiritual awakening, and it's a powerful moment for grounded alignment and manifestation. So when you step through this symbolic portal with clear intention.

You actually are accelerating your manifestations and you're receiving this incredible [00:04:00] energy and momentum behind what you desire. It's a perfect way to set us up for the manifesting that we wanna bring into the new year. So here's a really simple and profound ritual that you can do, and this is actually a scripting exercise that I want you to do before 1111.

And then after you do this practice, you're gonna bring this script with you on 1111 to my free live 1111 portal event. Yep, that's right. I'm doing a free live event to gather all of us, thousands and thousands of us all throughout the world at the same time, in the same way, to use this first step, which I'm about to give you, and then bring it into this portal for a major moment of reflection and alignment so that we can actually send this message to the universe.

Yep, we're ready. I'm ready to attract. So before we get into the practice, just go to dear gabby.com/ 1111 or hit the link in the show notes and join me for free. This is gonna be your way of bringing in this energy of this practice and aligning it with a group during the 1111 portal. So before the event, here's what we're [00:05:00] gonna do.

All you need is a pen and paper, and then I want you to find a quiet space for you to reflect without any interruptions. Just be uninterruptible for 10, 15, 20 minutes, however long you need. You're gonna write a letter to the universe, but here's the secret. You're gonna write it as if you're writing from the perspective of your future self.

You're going to be one year from now on November 11th, and you're writing this beautiful letter to yourself of all the incredible things that happened and the gratitude you have for what unfolded and for the lessons that you learned in the spiritual awakening that you've had, and anything that you wanna see through to the end.

This is a visualization technique and you're gonna write it like this. Dear universe, thank you. Thank you. Thank you. I am writing from a place of so much joy and gratitude, and I can't believe it's been a year since the 1111 portal. Then you're just gonna riff. You're gonna write about everything that you're grateful for, as if it already happened, and you're gonna describe how it feels in your body and what it feels like to [00:06:00] just see it through to the end and all the energy that was assumed through this journey and this practice.

And I want you to really focus on the emotions that come forward as you write about this. Just feel the feelings, write about the feelings. The more you align with those feelings, the more you're actually manifesting because we manifest who we are and the energy that we put out is what actually attracts to us.

So use this exercise as a way of really just grounding yourself and the feelings, emotions, and gratitude for all that you created. And you're writing this as if you're your future self. I actually wrote one full letter to the universe, and I'm just tweaking it a little bit right now, but it feels really good and I'm excited.

And then when you're done, I want you to fold up the letter. I want you to put it somewhere special. And then on 1111, you're gonna join me for the free live event. Again, the details are@deargabby.com slash 1111, and on this day, we're gonna gather thousands of us all throughout the world, and I'm gonna give you the next step for what to do with this letter that you've written to yourself.

We're gonna use it on this day [00:07:00] as a community, and we're gonna do guided meditations and q and a and really give you more lessons to amplify your energy specifically through the meditative moment because we wanna amplify our energy on the 1111 portal. And don't worry if you're hearing this after November 11th, 2025, you can still go to dear gabby.com/ 1111 and you'll get the replay of the video so you can watch it anytime.

So do not miss this. The lessons are still available to you. So now that you have your scripting exercise, I'm gonna pull three cards from my super attractor deck, and I'm gonna channel messages for you from these cards so that you can get the clear message that you need to prepare your energy and your frequency before this big event.

It's for this big 11, 11 days. So let's pull three cards. I'm gonna teach from these cards. This is from my super attractor deck. Here's the deck, and we pull the first card. Let's see what comes through. Feel that it is this card. Yeah, perfect. Feeling good will bring me far [00:08:00] more than whatever I thought I needed.

Beautiful. What this card means to me is it's emphasizing the part of the scripting lesson that's so crucial, the part of feeling good when you feel good, when you feel the feelings, and assume the energy of what you wanna manifest and what you wanna attract. It's gonna give you far more than you could ever imagine.

Because what you think about oftentimes is just even so much smaller than what you're energetically capable of attracting. So if you have a desire and you just think it let the thinking ignite a feeling, the feeling that you feel in this moment is the practice of manifesting. So throughout my life, I've allowed myself to not just let my mind wander, but let my energy wander.

So as you start to write that letter to the universe, let your energy wander into a new frequency, into a new capacity to feel hope, and inspiration, and excitement and creative force, because that hope, inspiration, faith, creativity, [00:09:00] that's your super attractor power. That's your super attractor energy.

That's what creates momentum behind your desires. That's what shifts you out of a fear-based place and into a faith-based energy, that momentum, so you can actually scribe your way into a feeling. So as you write that letter to your future self, make feeling good, your priority, and remember, this card says, feeling good will bring me far more than whatever I thought I needed.

Feeling good will bring me far more than whatever I thought I needed. Let's pull another card. This deck is so beautiful. It's covered in amazing lilies. My best friend designed it. Here we go. Okay, let's see. Okay, this is my favorite one. The universe has big plans for me and it's time to claim them. Now.

The card has a little eye and all these sparkles around it, behind a sun, and what this card implies to me is that there's so much coming. There's such an energy of receptivity that's available to us. The [00:10:00] universe has plans for us, so when we decide to consciously co-create our desires by. Writing that letter by setting an intention by joining me on 1111 for this free live event.

When you sign up for an event like that, you're saying, Hey, universe, yes, I am ready for you to deliver these messages and this guidance to me. You're saying, yes, I'm ready to get into the portal. I'm ready to get into the energy and the vibration of that frequency. So that energy of recognizing that the universe has plans for you and it's time for you to claim them.

Means that you also are saying, Hey, I recognize there's a spiritual force beyond my physical sight that's ready to show me more, that I have a opportunity to experience the world through a different lens. I have the opportunity to actually not be so active, but be a little bit more passive and allow more, and to witness more, and to let miracles unfold naturally.

So what does that mean? It means that you can have a powerful [00:11:00] intention, have clarity about where you wanna go, and then let the universe be your guide. Let the universe reveal to you what is available to you. The universe has plans that are so much better than yours, so just forget what you think you need.

Focus on how you wanna feel and trust that the universe has big, big plans for you, and it's just your time to claim them. So again, if you join me at 1111 for free and you sign up today, that's your message saying, Hey, I'm ready to claim my desires. If you write that letter to the universe, that is your scripting from your future self, that's a message saying, yes, I'm ready to claim my desires.

This is your way of co-creating, not you being the forceful creator, not you being the passive passenger, you being the co-creator of your desires, setting the intention, putting the energy out there, and then letting the universe show you what to do. That's my favorite card in the whole deck. Can't believe we just got [00:12:00] that prompt.

Fire people. What's this one? This is, I mean, I can't even make this up, guys. Ah, this is my third favorite card. Okay. Spiritual alignment puts my manifestation in motion. What does it mean to be spiritually aligned? It means you're grounded in a sense of faith. It means you're willing to witness your discomfort and willing to heal in the moment so you can get back into an energetic alignment that you're not gonna override your big feelings, but you're gonna feel into your big feelings and allow them to move through you so that your energy can shift.

That you're not the master of your desires, that you are the co-creator of your desires, that you are working with an energetic frequency, the universal energy, the spiritual frequency, and that when you're in a place of alignment, which is a place of joy and appreciation and honesty, right, even in the tough moments, and you're being honest in a tough moment, is actually a high vibration because you're caring for yourself.

You're compassionate towards yourself. So [00:13:00] honesty and authentic truth. Those are the energies and the frequencies that we have to be in alignment with for our manifestations to come into motion. And so that's why this card spiritual alignment puts my manifestation into motion. This card is so valuable for us because it's sending this message to the universe that I'm willing to not just think it or force it or play games with the universe, but I'm actually willing to get into the energy and the frequency of spiritual connection.

And if I put my spiritual relationship first, then what I desire will come next. Anything you put before your spiritual relationship, you will lose. So you can't let the desire be the thing that you're after. You have to let the spiritual connection be the thing that you're working, that you're practicing, and that you're cultivating.

So spiritual alignment puts my manifestation into motion, the perfect card. So let me recap your cards for you. Feeling good will bring me far more than whatever I thought I needed. Perfect card. Excellent, excellent card. Thank you universe for that [00:14:00] card. The universe has big plans for me and it's time to claim them Excellente.

We've got that card and it's making so much sense now that we know that we have the co-creation process at hand. Finally, spiritual alignment puts my manifestations into motion. When we commit to being spiritually aligned, then we can trust that we can manifest effortlessly because it's our spiritual energy that allows the manifestations to come into form.

It's not our force. It's not a pushing, it's not a controlling, it's not an action. It's the spiritual alignment. And so if you're ready, guys, you're ready to up level that spiritual alignment. If you're ready to bring this home with me and take advantage of this 1111 portal, write that script of your future self and then join me on 1111 and I'll show you what to do next.

With that script, I'm gonna give you a very clear next step. I'm gonna give you a deep, deep guided meditation practice. Group q and a, I'm gonna reveal something I've never [00:15:00] revealed before, so you're not gonna wanna miss it. Join me on 1111. If you can't join in live, you can watch the replay. It will be powerful no matter when you watch it.

Go to dear gabby.com/ 1111, sign up for free and join me. I'm really excited to gather as a community because the 1111 portal is a profound time for us to really focus and attune our energy and when we do it as a collective, when we do it as a community. It's that much more powerful. You're gonna feel the frequency.

And again, even if you're watching the replay of that live event, you're gonna feel the energetic frequency and the momentum behind it. So I can't wait to be with you. And today's an opportunity for you. Today is a moment in time where you can say, I'm gonna choose to see things differently. I'm gonna shift my energy.

I'm gonna focus on my visions for the year. I'm gonna focus on the energy that that brings and the feelings that it ignites. I'm gonna focus on the fact that I don't have to do it all alone and the universe is guiding me. I'm gonna focus on the [00:16:00] fact that I can gather with a like-minded community of spiritual people, and Gabby Bernstein on 1111.

This is an amazing opportunity, so put yourself into that point of attraction right here, right now, with all the gratitude and the appreciation for what's coming. Join me on 1111. I can't wait to be with you. We're gonna take this practice to the next level, my friend. We're taking it to the next level.

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So just enjoy the clip. I stand here today, almost 38 years old, 12 years into this career of being a spiritual teacher and thought leader. Extremely blessed, married to the man of my dreams, a man who I love deeply, who holds space for me, for my business, for the life that we have together, coming to countries all throughout the world to be able to speak on behalf of what I know to be true.

What [00:22:00] is the most important, most empowering, most valuable opportunity in the world is to live your purpose. I get to do that every day. I'm blessed. I wasn't always this scabby Bernstein. I wasn't always standing in this authentic truth. I wasn't always standing in the confidence of who I am. I wasn't always in alignment with a, a power greater than myself.

I wasn't always in a abundance mentality. For the first 25 years of my life, I lived the exact opposite way. I lived with a fear-based belief system. I lived with a story that there isn't enough. I lived with a belief that if I'm not pushing and screaming and making things happen, then I'm not successful, then I'm not good enough.

That belief system spun me into some interesting situations in my [00:23:00] life. It began when I first started a business at the age of 21. I had been brought up with a belief system of lack and not enough, and it's tough to earn. You can't have enough. You will never make enough that you have to hustle, hustle, hustle.

And at 21 years old, I knew that I did not want to have that story be mine. I knew that there was a more abundant way of living. Most importantly, I was afraid of it. So fear was perpetuating this desire to change. So when I was 21, my cousin asked me if I wanted to help promote a party in New York City.

So I lived in New York City and there's nightclubs in New York. When you're 21 years old, you have lots of 21-year-old friends, so you can bring them to the nightclubs. So he said, do you wanna bring your friends to the nightclub and I'll pay you? I think he said 10% of the bar. I said, I want 20% of the bar.

So [00:24:00] 20% of whatever the receipts from the bar were that night, I would take home with me. I bring all my friends, everybody comes up to the door, they say, Gabby at the door, they get in the door. And that night my cousin handed me $1,000 cash said, oh, I know how to make money. I turned the story that I had believed in for 21 years of, I can't, there's not enough.

All the stories that my parents brought me up to believe in, and I decided that day, in that moment. I can make money. So I went on this path of saying, well, if I know how to make money, then I can do it in many unique ways. I took this idea of being able to promote the party and get people into the nightclub as an opportunity to create a business around it.

And at 21 years old, I started my first business, which was a nightclub PR business, so public relations for nightclubs and restaurants in New York City. So really every night, every 20 something in town was just [00:25:00] saying Gabby at the door. It is a different door these days. So I had this business. I was building the business.

I was selling a lot. I was making money. I was really seemingly successful. It said, president on my business card, I could get into any nightclub past the velvet ropes. I had all the fabulous shoes. I had all the boyfriends. I had all the things, the trappings of what it seemed to be a happy life. But every time I'd get something, I would need something more, and I had a really bad case of what I call the when I haves.

When I have that new client, I'll be happy when I have that new pair of shoes. I'll be happy when I have that access to that nightclub. I'll be happy when I have that new client or that new business idea or that new amount of money. Then I will be happy. And these, when I haves, became this perpetual cycle of looking and [00:26:00] searching and seeking.

And then when the, when I haves became my haves, I was looking for it everywhere else. Eventually these win I haves became so strong, this future tripping and this desire to feel good enough and this need to prove myself to the world, that I started looking for it in pretty dark places. I started looking for it after hours in those nightclubs.
I started looking for it in drugs and alcohol and this New York City party scene, which at the time I believed was the only world there was. But all the while I had a stack of self-help books next to my bed. And a journal. And every night I would sit coming down from whatever drugs I had taken that night before in my bed, trying to fall asleep, all hopped up on whatever it was I had taken.

And I would write in my journal and I would read Wayne Dyer and Marianne Williamson, of course, in Miracles. Louise Hay. And I would try to [00:27:00] fall asleep as I would write in my journal and read these books. My outside life was only a reflection of the internal condition. The internal condition of I'm not enough.

I have to hustle. I have to try so hard. I have to work so hard. I have to push so hard. I'll never get there unless I'm burnt out and exhausted and I'm not enough, unless I surround myself with all of these belief systems that seem to be success. It got so bad that my addiction to drugs and alcohol became a serious problem.

So serious that it was life or death. And one night on October 2nd, 2005, I was sitting in my apartment, my studio apartment, a tiny little 300 square foot apartment in New York City on the ground floor, and I was surrounded by strangers at this little after hours that I was having in my apartment. Doing drugs and drinking alcohol.

And I looked at the strangers and I [00:28:00] pointed over to the self-help books next to my bed and I said, I'm gonna be a motivational speaker and a self-help book author. And they laughed at me. I kicked everybody outta my apartment. I started to see the sunrise rise as I sat on the floor of this New York City apartment with ashtrays and drugs and all of the alcohol and the clanking of the trash cans, and I could hear people walking to work and I was going nowhere and on the floor of my New York City apartment, I sat there and I said, I can't go on like this.

I need a miracle. And in that moment I heard this voice of my intuition, an authoritative voice that I've grown to rely on, a voice of truth, a voice of power, a voice of strength. And this voice said to me, get clean and you'll live a life beyond your wildest dreams.[00:29:00] 

It was the most undeniable moment of my life. I heard that voice, I took that message and I said, yes. I said, yes, I'm going to make that commitment to my life, to myself. On that day, I got sober, and in my sober recovery, I got spiritual. I got really, really spiritual. I hit my knees and I surrendered. I surrendered, and I surrendered more, and I surrendered more, and I surrendered more, and I said yes to life.

I began to awaken a presence far beyond my own. I established a relationship to a higher power, a belief system of strength, and a belief system of abundance, and a belief system of good enough and happy and joy and magnitude and service, and a belief system that created a world beyond my wildest dreams.

Today, I can happily say that I have transcended the limitations and I have said yes. [00:30:00] To the purpose of why I'm here, and that true purpose and that true mission is not to just be Gabby Bernstein on a stage, having fun, sharing spiritual principles. That purpose and that mission is to wake up as many people as possible so that you wake up and then you wake up your brothers, and you wake up your sisters, and you wake up your mother, and you wake up your husband, and you wake up your coworkers and you wake up, wake up, wake up, wake up, wake up, because we need to wake up now.
We need to wake up now.

I feel so grateful because I was a drug addict. I feel so grateful that I had that bottom at 25 years old because I was young and I got busy and I got spiritual and I got moving. And in the momentum that I have created as a devoted spiritual student, I have been able to not only. Live this joyful life, but inspire people to do the same and hopefully today do the same for you.

It is a [00:31:00] privilege to be able to stand here and speak to you about these principles and to speak to you about how you can use these principles, not only to feel good and be joyful, but to be abundant. In every area of your life to claim that abundance, to bring that abundance into your homes, into your business, and to have that abundance create what I desire most in life, which is freedom.
How many of you feel that you want to be free? That's probably one of our most core desires, is the desire to be free, the desire to be joyful and free.

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I wanna share with you some of the principles that I've been applying in the last 12 years. These are principles that I stand by, that I live by, that if I had not applied in my life, that I today would not be standing here before you.

These are the principles of how I bring that spiritual faith into my business so that my spiritual experience isn't just a part of my day, it's a spiritual life, so that my business isn't just a way that I earn money, it's a way that I give back.

It's a way that I even connect more. The business that I have is another way of connecting to a power greater than myself. That's what I want for all of you to have that same alignment in whatever it is that you do, regardless of whether you are a banker or a lawyer, or a life [00:37:00] coach, or a therapist, or an actress, or a musician, that you can bring that alignment into your life, wherever you are and however you show up.

So let me take you through some of the steps of how I chose to do things differently when I got sober, how I chose to reorganize my life and redirect my path and say yes to life in a different way. The first thing that's the most important step is that I put my spiritual connection above everything else.

I made feeling good, my priority. I made feeling good, my priority. I put my spiritual foundation above everything else because without it, I can't stand here in peace. Without it. I can't be free without it. I can't live with grace without it. I can't show up for the relationships that I have in my life with ease and love and freedom.

Without it, I can't live in the world today [00:38:00] without terror. So I use these principles to survive. And thrive to survive and thrive. So putting that spiritual foundation first. And so having faith in the guidance of the universe. And there's a beautiful passage from a metaphysical text called the Course in Miracles, and the course said, if you knew who walked beside you on the path that you have chosen, fear would be impossible.

Write that down. I'll say it again. If you knew who walked beside you. On the path that you have chosen, fear would be impossible. This is something I remind myself of daily. I remind myself daily that I'm not alone. And my work, and hopefully I'll help with you today to help establish this connection for you is not to say this is a spiritual connection.

This is what it means, but instead to crack you [00:39:00] open to what that spiritual relationship of your own understanding may be. There's a book I wrote called The Universe Has Your Back. And that book is designed to help you transform your fear into faith. Transform your fear into faith so that you can know, not just think, oh yeah, the universe, right?

But know, no, there is a power greater than me working through me. The next step is believe it to see it. We have an incredible example of that in the audience today. Our sister Dolly and Simone, the little Dutch girls who sat just like this in the front freaking row. In the front row. They were right there and they were like, Gabby, Gabby, we're gonna have you on stage with us, Gabby.

And I was [00:40:00] like, okay. That's like, okay, that sounds cool. And people say things like this to me a lot. And I say, okay, you know? Sure. But you have to believe it to see it. So rather than saying to them, no, I'll believe it when I see it, I think you have to really be able to believe it first. You have to believe it in allowing it to come into form.

And so the power of Dolley and Simone sitting in that audience in New York City, the little Dutch girls deciding, you know what, I'm gonna kick ass. I wanna do this. Let's just do this. That's what they said. Let's just do this without that American accent. Let's do this. They said, and that belief system is how this has been created in three years.

And I wanna brag about the little Dutch girls. I don't wanna compare, but this is the most successful story of my masterclass, is these two girls. Not the American girls, the [00:41:00] little Dutch girls.
It's not to say that there haven't been great successes and the American girls are doing just fine, so don't worry about them, but the little Dutch girls rock in the house. The biggest testimonial of all the women who I can just say they believed it and they created it. What you believed will manifest what you believe will manifest.

Now, the universe is a yes for every desire you put out into the world, but here's the problem people. Many of your desires are desires for what you don't want. So y'all are walking around saying, I don't wanna feel sick. I don't wanna feel sick, I don't wanna feel sick, I don't wanna feel sick. That is a manifestation for feeling sick.

Rather than focusing on your illness, focus on your wellness. I feel good today. I feel good today. I feel good today. So the universe is a hell yes for everything you [00:42:00] put out. So if they had said, we're just the little Dutch girls. We're just the little Dutch girls, then we wouldn't be here today. I'd be in, I don't know, some other country, we would not be here today.

But because they said, you know what? Ah, screw that. We are gonna do this. The universe was a yes. So start to think today, immediately, right now, what are you a yes for? And what is it that we need to shift? What are some of the stories that we need to begin to transcend? Because on that day of October 2nd, 2005, I was like, no more with this.

I'm not gonna keep running. I don't wanna run anymore. I wanna surrender. And I became a yes for surrender, and that surrender led my life, so believe it to see it. What I love most about that story is that it reminds me that we don't actually manifest with forester control. We manifest through alignment.

We need to be in alignment. When we start to put our spiritual connection first, everything we need starts to unfold naturally. And anything that you put [00:43:00] before your spiritual relationship, you might struggle with, frankly, you really might. And so as we move into this 11, 11 energy, I want you to trust that you're being guided.

You're not doing life alone. The universe is walking beside you every single step of the way, opening invisible doors for you. And just take a moment right now to feel that presence in your heart and breathe it in. Let it remind you that you're safe and it's safe to surrender. It's safe to believe in miracles and it's safe to receive.

I'm really, really grateful that you joined me today and made this 1111 portal be a beautiful opening for your faith and joy in miracles. And if you wanna join my 1111 event, you can go to dear gabby.com/ 1111 to get all the details. I love you. Have a sacred day. I'll see you next time on Dear Gabby, if you made it to the end of [00:44:00] this episode, that means you're truly committed to miracles. I'm really proud of you.

If you wanna get more Gabby, tune in every Monday for a new episode. Make sure to subscribe so you don't miss any of the guidance or special bonus episodes. Your experience of this show means a lot to me, so I really wanna welcome you to leave an honest review and you can follow me on social media at Gabby Bernstein.

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