mental health resources

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…and my story of recovery from postpartum anxiety and depression

As someone who has recovered from postpartum anxiety and depression, mental health is a topic very close to my heart.

I’m far from alone in my experience with mental illness — nearly 50 million adults in the United States alone manage a mental illness every day. Even folks who don’t have diagnosed disorders are experiencing sadness, anxiety, loneliness, stress, and frustration like never before.

mental health is important for everyone

Regardless of whether you have a diagnosed mental disorder or you’re just feeling the enormous stress of the times, mental health is paramount right now. (This also goes for anyone struggling with addiction, which I address in this post as well.)

In this article I want to do a few things:

  • Share my own mental health story
  • Show you that you’re not alone
  • Provide accessible resources for mental health care
  • Share tips for how to help yourself and others right now

I’ll start with my story, and then all the resources are linked at the end of this post.

my story of postpartum anxiety and depression

I had my son, Oliver, in December 2018. I was fortunate to have an easy pregnancy and the labor and delivery experience I’d hoped for. When Oliver and I came home from the hospital, we were both doing really well and had a lot of support.

Then, three months later, I started to feel my anxiety flare up in weird ways. I started worrying about things like which diapers to use and whether my son was sleeping okay.

At first I brushed them off as the kind of thing every new mom worries about. But I couldn’t deny that the feeling behind them was one of terror and panic. I wasn’t just concerned — I was obsessed.

my anxiety only got worse

My anxiety got worse with each passing week. I couldn’t sleep. I had panic attacks. I became agoraphobic. My insomnia was so bad that I was scared to even attempt to fall asleep.

Scariest of all was the fact that when I looked at my son, I didn’t recognize him. This disconnect plunged me into depression.

I tried to fix the problem in all kinds of ways. I called every doctor friend and wellness expert to ask for their opinion. I took supplements for anxiety and sleep, but nothing worked. I was so sleep-deprived that I was having meltdowns regularly.

hitting bottom with postpartum anxiety and depression

I hit bottom in May 2019. On Mother’s Day I was so depressed, anxious and exhausted that I said I wanted to kill myself. But I still didn’t let myself get honest about what was going on.

Later that month, I went to Manhattan with my husband and son because I had a talk scheduled. The night before my talk, I didn’t sleep at all.

For the first time in my 15-year career, I canceled an appearance.

As I sat in the living room breastfeeding my son, I felt ashamed and beaten down as well as afraid. Finally, I knew it was time to surrender. I couldn’t go on like this any longer. I prayed for guidance.

The slightest willingness to see your life with love will be the catalyst for your greatest change.


That afternoon, my therapist called me to intervene. She said she thought I had postpartum anxiety and depression, and she suggested I talk to a psychiatrist and get on medication.

Her recommendation alarmed me. I’d been brought up homeopathic, and prescription medicine was totally foreign to me. But I’d prayed for guidance, so I stayed open. I made some calls and met with a psychiatrist who specializes in maternity and postpartum mental health. She diagnosed me with postpartum anxiety and depression (PPA and PPD).

I was relieved that I finally had a diagnosis and a healing path. But I realized I was also ashamed of my diagnosis. I felt ashamed that I couldn’t help myself. None of my spiritual tools had worked. I also felt ashamed that I was suffering from mental illness, because the stigma made me feel broken and inferior.

accepting help and speaking up

I had a choice. I could stay silent and ashamed — or I could speak up. The voice of my Higher Self was guiding me to open up about that unspoken shame in order to help others. That same day, I posted a video on Instagram where I shared my diagnosis and postpartum experience.

I am a shame shifter

Posting that video was a huge relief, and I was so grateful to be able to serve other women who have suffered from postpartum anxiety or depression. Since then I’ve continued to be very public about my experience. I’m committed to erasing the stigma and shame for myself and others.

I’m no stranger to stigma. In my early twenties, I suffered from addiction. In order to get clean, I had to overcome the stigma around addiction, ask for help, show up to meetings and do the work.

Every ounce of effort was worth it: I have been in sober recovery since October 2, 2005.

Once again, in 2019, my willingness to ask for help and do the work cleared my path toward healing. It wasn’t always easy, and I still had resistance. I had a hard time being patient and wanted to force myself to recover faster. I had to remember to surrender every single day.

the gifts of recovery from anxiety

My recovery from postpartum anxiety and depression involved therapy, my spiritual practice and psychiatric care — including medication. I was really hesitant, at first, to accept the medication part of that equation. As I said earlier, it was totally unfamiliar to me. And there’s still plenty of stigma around psychiatric medication.

But today I’m so grateful that I didn’t let my fear or shame hold me back… because medication saved my life.

Suffering from postpartum anxiety and depression was one of the most difficult experiences of my life. ⁣

one beautiful lesson I learned through my recovery is that the great stuff can coexist with the tough stuff

Now I can look back and see how my darkest struggle was the catalyst for my greatest transformation. I’m able to forgive my experience and release it. Best of all, I can celebrate my resilience.⁣

I stand here today, joyful, healthy, confident and strong, as a result of my willingness to seek help. And while I’ve recovered, I still tend to my mental health daily, the same way I tend to my physical health daily.

Anxiety, depression, panic, bipolar disorder, schizophrenia, personality disorders, PTSD, addiction disorders, eating disorders, and every other type and expression of mental illness — they don’t care who you are. They don’t care how spiritual you are, where you come from, what you look like. If you’re suffering with one or more of these conditions, it doesn’t mean you’re broken or inferior or weak.

In fact, living with these conditions requires extraordinary strength.

Recovery, however it looks for you, however messy it may be, is something to be deeply proud of.


It can be really hard to reach out and advocate for yourself, especially if you suffer from one of the more stigmatized and debilitating disorders. But you are worth it. Your life, your well-being, your health, your happiness, your very existence are all worth it.

the spiritual side of mental health

While my PPA/PPD recovery may have started with a medicated path, it was my spiritual faith that helped me get to where I am today. The medication helped me feel safe. But my spiritual and personal growth tools are what led me to the next level of genuine safety and trust

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Through my devoted weekly therapy sessions, I dove deep into healing modalities such as Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT) and Somatic Experiencing (SE).

Each day I woke up and prayed to be supported and guided. I built up my meditation practice to be a sustainable source of peace throughout the day. I made sleep hygiene non-negotiable by turning off my phone two hours before bedtime and putting all my devices in another room.

I also created a very powerful nighttime ritual. I take a bath, journal and listen to bilateral music.

When dealing with anxiety, exercise is one of the greatest ways to move the stagnant energy out of your body. Our body holds our fear and we have to move to release it. I walk four miles uphill every day along with other online workouts.

I know it may sound like a lot to stay mentally well, but it’s worth itthat’s cool! My inner peace is my highest priority. When we make that commitment to ourselves, the rest of our life can flow.

mental health resources

I’ve been very fortunate to have access to excellent medical care, but I know this can be a profound struggle for many people. Sometimes it feels impossible just to know where to start. So here I’m listing mental health resources that my team and I have gathered over time.

Undoubtedly there are ones we’ve missed, so please feel free to share a comment below with any resources we should investigate.

mental health resources

general mental health

postpartum anxiety and depression resources

From the American Psychological Association:

If you are having thoughts of hurting yourself or your baby, take action now: Put the baby in a safe place, like a crib. Call a friend or family member for help if you need to. Call a suicide hotline (free and staffed all day, every day):

  • National Hopeline Network: 1-800-SUICIDE (1-800-784-2433)
  • National Strategy for Suicide Prevention LifeLine: 1-800-273-TALK (1-800-273-8255). There are hotlines for every state.
  • PPDMoms: 1-800-PPDMOMS (1-800-773-6667)

Call your psychologist’s or other licensed mental health provider’s emergency number. Call your doctor’s or other primary health care provider’s emergency number. Tell someone you trust about what you are feeling; ask him or her to help you take these steps.

Source for the above guidance and resources

emergency numbers

Important note: If you’re in a dangerous or life-threatening situation, call 911 (see below for emergency services numbers in other countries).

Emergency numbers outside the United States:

Canada: 911

Mexico: 066 or 911

UK: 999 or 112

Ireland: 999 or 112

Netherlands: 112

Germany: 112

France: 112

Australia: 000 or 112

New Zealand: 111

South Africa: 112 on mobile phones

See a complete list on Wikipedia.

suicide prevention

United States

National Suicide Prevention Lifeline, available 24/7: 1-800-273-8255

Chat online at

For Spanish speakers: 1-800-273-8255 then press 2

For LGBTQ youth: 1-866-4-U-TREVOR


Veterans Crisis Line is 1-800-273-8255 or TTY: 1-800-799-4889


Crisis Services Canada: 1-833-456-4566

United Kingdom

Call Samaritans 24 hours a day: 116 123

More suicide & mental health helplines in the UK

Australia helpline: 13 11 14

More suicide helplines in Australia


Suicide and mental health helplines

Click here for more suicide prevention resources, including international hotlines.

domestic violence, physical abuse & sexual assault

RAINN is an organization for helping sexual assault survivors. Free, confidential sexual assault hotline is available 24/7: 800-656-HOPE (800-656-4673). You can also chat online with a counselor.

The National Domestic Violence Hotline is free, confidential and available 24/7. Call 1-800-799-7233 or TTY 1-800-787-3224.

You can also talk to an advocate in their free, confidential online chat, also available 24/7. The website is or in Spanish:

addiction recovery Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration. The main hotline is 1-800-662-HELP (1-800-662-4357). It’s confidential, free, and available 24/7 in English and Spanish.

This helpline is for individuals and family members facing mental and/or substance use disorders. This service provides referrals to local treatment facilities, support groups, and community-based organizations.

Click here for the Alcoholics Anonymous website.

You can also find free online addiction recovery support from In the Rooms.

eating disorders

The NEDA Helpline is 1-800-931-2237. Find more helpline info here.

Other resources include the eating disorder hotline and the eating disorders helpline.

how are you supporting yourself (and others) right now?

I want to hear from you! If you feel called to share, leave a comment on this post and let me know how you’re supporting your own mental health during this time.

And if you’re also caring for others, whether that’s your own family/friends or the greater community, please feel free to share whatever resources you’re relying on now.

Remember that no matter what’s going on, you deserve mental health care. If you suffer from a mental health condition, you are NOT alone.

Help is available, and there are brighter days ahead. The first step is to reach out, whether that’s calling a helpline, a doctor or a trusted friend.

The Universe has your back now and always.

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